Being you...

We spend our lives hiding ourselves, diminishing ourselves and trying to Be what we are supposed to Be for others.. Familiar?
Then we are liberated with the possibility that we can just Be ourselves no matter what, un apologetically and totally. So we make a quick switch to what it is to be this Free and live with such abandon. In the process we overcompensate or even misapply what that is. 
We tend to care a damn, get aggressive, prove, fight, rebel...
Being who you are is got to do with a lot of your gentle presence, with kindness, it is not getting into another act of doing contrary to that it is about you being present to yourself as it is, being around people without having to defy, fight or rebel against anything. It is honouring of you And other people. It is the gentleness that is a dynamic presence in this world.