What would your life Be like if you were the source of it?

It is Interesting to see how we invest in People, Places and Things. We invest in them so fully or the idea of them or the importance of them and the need of them. 
Lets take for example relationships. We make some of them Vital,something that defines us, becomes the source of joy, money, love and validates our existence. In including someone we exclude the rest. Perhaps that is how relationships have been done in this reality for far too long. Basis for monogamy I suppose...
There are a few who do claim to have great relationships, some struggle and some don't even want to look at it lest they get uncomfortable.
Most of us hold on to the idea of what is a relationship and how it is supposed to be.
The real relationship in question is Yours to You. If you could invest in your self, have your back, be committed to you, be the source of your life, your joy, be so deeply connected to you only then you can have the rest as a by product that is not transient like all relationships. 
You never have to exclude anyone in your life, because with everyone you have a different relationship. Each person adds something to your life sometimes in the way of a experience. 
The key is You include You your Relationship. 
What would your life Be like if you were the source of it?

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